[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/zvladnete-vztek-ditete-i-ten-svuj\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/zvladnete-vztek-ditete-i-ten-svuj\/","headline":"Zvl\u00e1dn\u011bte vztek d\u00edt\u011bte i ten sv\u016fj!","name":"Zvl\u00e1dn\u011bte vztek d\u00edt\u011bte i ten sv\u016fj!","description":"V\u00a0okam\u017eiku, kdy se Va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b v\u00e1l\u00ed v\u00a0hysterick\u00e9m z\u00e1chvatu uprost\u0159ed obchodu, nejrad\u011bji byste se jako rodi\u010d vypa\u0159ili. Pocity, \u017ee jako rodi\u010d … More<\/a>","datePublished":"2025-03-01","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"kofare.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6808215d501bdbb001ef3734be3cdad1be23596de78c590ed2ac5868fce74c95?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6808215d501bdbb001ef3734be3cdad1be23596de78c590ed2ac5868fce74c95?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"kofare.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a310910_w1908_t1521836387.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a310910_w1908_t1521836387.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/zvladnete-vztek-ditete-i-ten-svuj\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":531,"articleBody":"V\u00a0okam\u017eiku, kdy se Va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b v\u00e1l\u00ed v\u00a0hysterick\u00e9m z\u00e1chvatu uprost\u0159ed obchodu, nejrad\u011bji byste se jako rodi\u010d vypa\u0159ili. Pocity, \u017ee jako rodi\u010d naprosto selh\u00e1v\u00e1te, se neomyln\u011b dostav\u00ed a vy se budete c\u00edtit naprosto bezmocn\u00ed. Je t\u0159eba, abyste se co nejrychleji uklidnili p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm vy. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e9 obdob\u00ed d\u011btsk\u00e9ho v\u00fdvoje nen\u00ed nekone\u010dn\u00e9, a tak mus\u00edte zatnout zuby, vydr\u017eet a pomoci d\u00edt\u011bti toto obdob\u00ed co nejrychleji a nejl\u00e9pe p\u0159eklenout.Kdy u d\u011bt\u00ed obdob\u00ed vzdoru za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1?Prvn\u00ed projevy nesouhlasu d\u00edt\u011bte s\u00a0Va\u0161imi p\u0159edstavami o pr\u016fb\u011bhu ud\u00e1lost\u00ed se objevuj\u00ed ji\u017e po prvn\u00edch narozenin\u00e1ch. D\u00edt\u011b se osamostat\u0148uje, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 samo chodit a za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 b\u00fdt v\u00a0\u0159ad\u011b ohled\u016f sob\u011bsta\u010dn\u00e9. C\u00edt\u00ed pot\u0159ebu d\u011blat v\u011bci samo a zkou\u0161et, co v\u0161e dok\u00e1\u017ee. U d\u00edt\u011bte se obdob\u00ed vzdoru neprojev\u00ed pouze jednou, ale vrac\u00ed se v\u00a0pr\u016fb\u011bhu v\u00fdvoje hned n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t, t\u00edm posledn\u00edm a mo\u017en\u00e1 nejn\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm b\u00fdv\u00e1 v\u0161ak obdob\u00ed puberty. Vztek je pro lidi stejn\u011b p\u0159irozen\u00fd pocit jako radost nebo strach. A stejn\u011b jako s\u00a0ostatn\u00edmi emocemi je dobr\u00e9 nau\u010dit se s\u00a0n\u00edm pracovat.Jak s\u00a0d\u011btsk\u00fdm vztekem zach\u00e1zet?Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee d\u011bti n\u00e1m tyto sc\u00e9ny ned\u011blaj\u00ed schv\u00e1ln\u011b. Jejich mozek nen\u00ed natolik vyzr\u00e1l\u00fd, aby si s\u00a0tak siln\u00fdmi emocemi um\u011blo poradit v\u00a0klidu. \u010c\u00edm v\u00edce si uv\u011bdomuj\u00ed sv\u00e9 \u201ej\u00e1\u201c, t\u00edm v\u00edce se sna\u017e\u00ed vymezit v\u016f\u010di sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed a prosadit sv\u00e9 p\u0159edstavy o \u017eivot\u011b. Pokud si kladete za \u00fakol, \u017ee budete v\u0161em takov\u00fdmto z\u00e1chvat\u016fm u d\u00edt\u011bte p\u0159edch\u00e1zet, ned\u011bl\u00e1te \u00fapln\u011b dob\u0159e. Zaprv\u00e9 to nen\u00ed ani dost mo\u017en\u00e9 a za druh\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b se pot\u0159ebuje s\u00a0t\u011bmito emocemi nau\u010dit pracovat, po cel\u00fd \u017eivot jej p\u0159ece p\u0159ed nimi chr\u00e1nit nem\u016f\u017eete. Co v\u0161ak m\u016f\u017eete ud\u011blat, je d\u00edt\u011bti jasn\u011b vymezit hranice, ve kter\u00fdch se m\u016f\u017ee \u201epohybovat\u201c. Pokud d\u011bti v\u011bd\u00ed, co mohou a co ne, m\u00edvaj\u00ed obdob\u00ed vzdoru klidn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.Vztek je vlastn\u011b vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00edm ur\u010dit\u00e9ho pocitu zmaten\u00ed, ztracen\u00ed a snahou p\u0159it\u00e1hnout pozornost rodi\u010de. Nav\u00edc d\u011bti se nejv\u00edce u\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1podobou, vid\u00ed-li rodi\u010de neust\u00e1le se nad n\u011b\u010d\u00edm roz\u010dilovat a vztekat, t\u011b\u017eko mohou \u010dekat, \u017ee jejich d\u00edt\u011b bude reagovat klidn\u011b. Dejte d\u00edt\u011bti najevo, \u017ee jej ch\u00e1pete, jen to u\u017e mu pom\u016f\u017ee, aby se v\u00a0nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch okam\u017eic\u00edch zklidnilo. Dejte d\u00edt\u011bti v\u0161ak najevo, \u017ee je nep\u0159\u00edpustn\u00e9, aby ve sv\u00e9m vzteku bylo agresivn\u00ed. Pevn\u00fdm a klidn\u00fdm hlasem mu \u0159ekn\u011bte, \u017ee sice rozum\u00edte tomu, \u017ee je na\u0161tvan\u00e9, ale ani to mu ned\u00e1v\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo, n\u011bkoho b\u00edt atd. 3.9\/5 - (8 votes) "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Zvl\u00e1dn\u011bte vztek d\u00edt\u011bte i ten sv\u016fj!","item":"https:\/\/www.kofare.cz\/zvladnete-vztek-ditete-i-ten-svuj\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]